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Manner Monday®: What to say to someone who just suffered loss due to a natural disaster

 

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Wow, between hurricanes Harvey and Irma, I think it’s safe to say everyone knows someone who was affected.  Between Houston, the Caribbean islands, Florida, and – who knows where else by the time Irma runs out of steam – we’re seeing so much devastation it’s hard not to worry about our friends and family in those areas.

For someone who has been affected by the disasters and is dealing with the aftermath, it’s comforting to hear from loved ones.  But for those of us wanting to say something but not quite sure ‘what’ to say… I thought I’d share some tips.

It’s important that you say ‘something’.  Don’t over worry about what to say so much that you don’t communicate at all.  Facebook makes it easy to ‘comment’ on your friends page.  But think about going that extra step and sending an email or even snail mail (if you have an address for them that is safe and you know they will receive the mail).  Snail mail adds a special touch to your comments in that it shows an extra level of care in that you took the time to sit down and put pen to paper.  An email is great, but if you can shoot them a card or handwritten note – that’s huge.

What should I write?  Start by acknowledging the persons loss and situation.  Express your concern and close with empathy.

Maybe something along the lines of:

“Wow, I am so sorry to hear about the heartbreaking losses you have experienced through the Hurricane. I cannot begin to imagine the frustration and pain you are experiencing. Please know that you are heavy on my mind and I am thinking of you. I wish you the best possible outcome as you navigate this very difficult time.”

Then make a note on your calendar to then follow up with them in 4-6 weeks.  After a few weeks have passed, everyone else will be back to their regular schedules while your friend could use a pick-me-up with a check-in from you – letting them know you’re thinking of them.

Do you have a ‘manner’ or question you would like to see covered next week in Manner Monday?  Feel free to send me your thoughts, I would love to hear from you.

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Thanks for reading!
Carey Sue

 


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