Manner Monday®: Assumptions

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by Carey Sue Vega in Business Etiquette, Manner Monday, Manners

In the world of manners, etiquette and professionalism, we talk a lot about ‘first impressions’.  Right, wrong, or indifferent, a first impression can make or break you.  First impressions can also be wrong.  Have you ever had a bad day?  Have you ever fumbled a first impression?  It happens – and it’s really hard to recover from.  If you think about it, a first impression is really an assumption, an assumption formed of the person in front of you:

  • How are they dressed?  Do they look like a million bucks?  They may have picked up that designer suit at a resale shop.
  • Are they carrying a high-end handbag?  It may have been a gift.
  • Are they driving a luxury car?  It may be an older model that has been paid off for years and is the only reliable thing they have in their life right now.

I’m guilty of it.  I’ve looked at a person, sized them up, and assumed I had a pretty good handle on them from the get go – only to find out I’d made a mistake.

Where you ever taught that trick about separating out the word assume?  If you haven’t, ask around – it’s a fun reminder that we don’t want to fall into the trap of assuming anything!


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Here are just a few of the workshop topics:

  • Etiquette and the Generations – understanding ‘those guys’
  • Creating a Great Customer Service Experience
  • Business Etiquette and Professionalism – Navigating Lunch and Networking Events
  • First and Lasting Impressions
  • Professional Dress


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– Carey Sue

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